Loving A Woman

Loving a woman is not very complicated at all
It just takes a grown ass man to answer the call
It means taking the time to learn everything you need to know
Learn how to please her from head to toe

First you start by making love to her mind

Make her feel special like she’s one of a kind

Pay attention and listen to what she has to say
Do little small things to help make her day

Find out what makes her happy and what she likes

It may be an evening staying in or going out on long hikes

Send her flowers with a note saying "Just thinking of you"

Do all the things that real men do

Be honest with her and open from the start
Let her know she can trust you with her heart
Strive to be her lover, confidant and best friend
Those things will build a love that will never end

My True Essence

The Thickness Artist: Jill Scott

She a big chick,
Big ol' legs,
Big ol' thighs,
Big ol' hips,
Big ol' ass,
Big ol' tits,

She so big!
Won't nobody even try to reach her mind
Age 14,
Eyes green,
Young tender, supple, and fine,
Hear them,
all those oohs and ahhs slip as she lick her lips,
Oh, they want to fuck her,
They want to rub their dicks on her precious clitoris,
They want to watch them big ol titties settle and part a bit,
They want to talk about it,
Tell it,
Spread it,
Relive the conquest,
How they beat on that ass and how the knock that shit,

Don't stop,
Won't stop,
To recognize that there's more,
More underneath that thickness,
That sweet and round brown young tender thickness,

Now they like her quiet and eager,
Sweet and meager,
Shhhhh!
Don't you complain about my other women,
Just drop that big thick ass on my stiffness,
Make me nut all up on your gut with the quickness,

Don't stop,
Won't stop,
Lift it,
Yea girl lift it,
Lift it baby,
Drop it again,
Cause I aint your tribesmen no more,
I aint your friend,
Come on girl just let me in,
Let me into all that thickness,
That sweet and round brown supple bigness,

Cause she so big won't nobody even try to reach her mind,
She's been degraded, exploited, NOT celebrated,
Saturated with self hatred,

Let me say that again please:
She's been degraded, exploited, NOT celebrated,
Saturated with self hatred,
Cause every time she turns on the TV,
What does she see? big ol' booty,
And it don't have nothing to do with the song,

Thus, her definition of beauty,
Thus, her definition of beauty,

Oh, oh, oh Lord,
Oh Lord,
Oh Lord,

Let her,
Let her recognize the magnificence you've created,
Lift her,
Lift her,
Lift her,

Let her be elevated,
Let her be elevated,
Lord, Lord,
Let her be elevated,
Let her be elevated,

Cause she is so big,
She so big,
She so big,
She so big,
She so big,
She so big,
She so big,
She so big,

Let her be elevated,
Let her be elevated.

10 Things Everyone Hates About Sex written by Charlotte Green

One of my friends posted this on Facebook and I thought it was one of the funniest, realist things I have read in a long time so I had to post it. This was written by Charlotte Green.

 

1. Guys who pass out directly after orgasm.

 

No one is saying that this is a marathon. Obviously there are times where you are just going to need to catch a few Zs after you get yours, so to speak, but there is nothing worse than a dude who is just ready to leave your eager, orgasm-less body to wither and die on the other side of the bed while he catches up on his sweaty napping. If he’s not going to do the right thing and learn to hold off a bit on his orgasm, the least he can do is make sure he finishes her off in other ways so that she’s not left to just complain to a girlfriend about it via text message as he snores away next to her.

 

2. People who refuse to engage in oral sex (yet expect the other person to provide).

 

There is no law requiring you to perform oral sex. There is no rule stating what is and isn’t required during a private act between two consenting adults. But if you are the kind of person who just takes it completely off the menu from the get-go because, I don’t know, penises are ugly and/or vaginas are scary and cavernous, you can’t expect it back. Foreplay is a give-and-take kind of thing, and it requires of people the ability to do things strictly for the joy of pleasing someone else. Like, no, you are not likely to get any direct stimulation yourself while performing cunnilingus — you’re supposed to get your jollies from the act of giving. If you can’t get down with that, don’t expect your partner to be so selfless, either.

 

3. Opposing protection.

 

I don’t know you. I don’t know your life. You are not putting it in, around, or anywhere near me so long as it’s not wrapped up like the last Christmas present under the couch. If that’s not okay, I recommend you stop having sex post haste.

 

4. Developing feelings against your will.

 

If someone has worked out the magic formula to just having an awesome fuck buddy for whom you never develop real emotions and with whom things never get complicated or painful, please tell us. You can’t keep that information all to yourself and expect the rest of us normal people to just pick up on it. Because from where I stand, there is a moment somewhere in the post-orgasm spoon where your brain just starts going, “But, come on, you kind of love this person. At least a little bit. Come on.” And that shit is no fun.

 

5. People who can’t laugh at the funnier aspects of sex.

 

Sometimes you’re going to make a weird, squishy noise during sex. Someone might slip off. Someone might queef. Anything could happen. And if you’re the kind of person who makes things all weird and awkward and isn’t capable of having a good laugh about the odd-but-natural aspects of the human body, you are making for some seriously lackluster sex. Being able to laugh is what makes everything great (and what makes people comfortable enough to experiment with all the more saucy positions).

 

6. Obviously fake orgasms.

 

No one buys your insane, operatic, starts-the-second-you-lay-a-single-finger-on-her orgasms. Every time someone fakes an orgasm — especially an orgasm that seems too good to be true (yet is believed by some naive person who just wants it to be real so badly), you are ruining it for the rest of us gals who refuse to fake it out. Every time a man has looked at her with a mix of earnest disappointment, frustration, and disbelief, asking her, “Why can’t you come? Every other girl did,” it is your fault. Yours.

 

7. Not taking the time to properly clean oneself.

 

Sure, there can be the occasional hot, sweaty moment of post-workout love. But that does not mean that every time you hook up, you’re exempt from having to give things a good little scrub. There is a difference between having that natural “people” taste down there and essentially being like a brick of sweaty camembert that wants to be licked. Don’t put that nonsense on anyone, let alone someone who is kind enough to be having sex with you.

 

8. Moves that were clearly learned from a bad porno.

 

The jackhammer is not a move. The “just going for the vagina without any kind of warming up or even a little bit of something to lubricate it because women are always in a state of moist readiness” is not a move. The “fast and dry handy with not even a little spit on the palm to get things started” is not a move. None of these are moves. Stop watching porn, and start watching the way your partner’s body moves.

 

9. Trying to “accidentally” do something during the act.

 

No one “accidentally” puts it in the butt. No one. Not even you. You’re not magic. Stop trying it.

 

10. Not listening.

 

If someone doesn’t like something, stop it. If they look uncomfortable, stop it. If their body tenses up, stop it. Ask them what they want (and actually listen). Because if there’s one thing that will ruin even the best sexual encounter, it’s assuming that you know what works best and barreling forth at full steam despite how the other person’s face is all crinkled up in displeasure. None of us are Gods. We are all capable of making mistakes. In listening, and learning, do we actually become good. And we should all be good.

Source: http://thoughtcatalog.com/2013/10-things-everyone-hates-about-sex/

No Weapon...

When they talked about me and scandalized my name
When they tried to embarrass me and make me hang my head in shame
When they turned their backs on me and left me alone
When they did everything they could to destroy my home

They forgot… but I had not…

No weapon formed against me shall prosper
Be it a friend, foe or imposter

When I was my own worst enemy harming myself

When I didn’t care about anything, not even my own health
When I decided I would rather die than to live
When I had given my all and had nothing left to give

Even when I forgot …. He had not…

No weapon formed against me shall prosper
Be it a friend, foe or imposter

My True Essence